Virginity and First-Time Sex

There is no doubt about it: sexual pleasure is one of the best feelings in the world. Most people's first experience with sexual pleasure and orgasm is through masturbation. There are many feelings and opinions about "getting off" through masturbation (sometimes referred to as solo sex). For more information read our page on Masturbation and Sexual Pleasure.

What about sexual activity with someone else? Whether it is your first kiss, touching, oral sex or "going all the way," sexual activity with a partner is a powerful experience. There are choices to be made about how far you go and what responsibility you have to protect your partner and yourself from disease or pregnancy. The Palo Alto Medical Foundation "We're Talking Teen Health" Web site has information about these issues.

Virginity
If you want support for keeping or "reclaiming" your virginity, read the articles below.

• Defining Virginity: What does "virginity" really mean?
• Second-Generation Virginity: Do you wish you had your virginity back? You're not alone.
• Not Everyone's Doing 'It!': The number of teens having sex has decreased over the past decade.
• Gender Pressures and Virginity: Do men want it more than women?

Preparing for the 'First Time'
What should you consider if you're "ready"? We offer comprehensive advice.

• Ready or Not?: Ask yourself if the time is right for you.
• Getting Prepared: Find a comfortable location and familiarize yourself with birth control.
• The Big Moment -- What the First Time May Be Like: It may be wonderful, disappointing or even painful.
• Common Disappointments with Sex: What are some common issues that may arise during sex?